How to connect to a remote server launched with `--noPublish`

As the title says, I can't connect to the Fleet Lobby from my remote server because it uses a proxy, so I can launch a remote fleet workspace only with the `--noPublish` option. However, it's not clear to me how I can connect to the server from the front-end on my laptop in this way, as the link provided when spawning the server of course does not work as the server instance does not publish its coordinates to JetBrains.

How can I accomplish this?

Thanks!